The distinct tradition of cremating children is not only related to religious beliefs but also to emotional and scientific aspects. This explains to us why in Hinduism the last rites of small children are performed not by burning but by burying.
In Hinduism, fire rites are generally considered the most sacred after death. It is believed that fire unites the body into the five elements and frees the soul from its bondages. But when it comes to small children or unmarried children, this tradition changes.
Children’s purity and innocent nature
The main reason for this is considered to be the purity and innocent nature of the children. According to the scriptures, small children have not yet committed any such deeds due to which they would have to get trapped in the bondage of birth and death. Their soul is already pure and free. Therefore there is no need to purify them with fire.
Rules of cremation according to Garuda Purana
According to Garuda Purana, a child whose milk teeth have not erupted or who is very small is not cremated. In many beliefs, the tradition of burying children aged 2 to 5 years is mentioned. It is believed that till this age the child does not develop the sense of ‘I’ and ‘mine’.
From spiritual point of view it is also said that human being has three bodies: gross, subtle and causal body. In larger ones these three are strongly bound together, requiring fire to separate them. But in children this connection is very light and simple, so their soul easily leaves the body.
Scientific and physical approach
Even if seen scientifically, the body of small children is very soft. The upper part of their head (called Brahmarandhra) is not completely closed, due to which prana easily escapes out. Therefore, there is no need for a procedure like Kapala Kriya.
Mystery related to nature and five elements
In Hinduism, the body is considered to be made up of five elements: soil, water, fire, air and sky. The body of an adult is mixed with these elements through fire, but the body of a child is still considered closest to nature. Therefore, handing him over directly to the soil is considered more natural and peaceful.
There is another reason why the death of a small child is very sad for the family. In such a situation, the process of burial is relatively calm and gives the feeling that the child is safe in the lap of Mother Earth.