Sia Goyal Case Alert: What questions should be asked to the partner before marriage? Pune: After Siya Goyal case, know from relationship experts those 5 things which should be cleared.
Pune Murder Case Relationship Lessons: The time after engagement in an arranged marriage is very beautiful, but this time is not just for shopping, reels and roaming around to look like a ‘perfect couple’. This is actually a window where you can test each other’s thinking, honesty and maturity. Pune’s high-profile murder case has once again raised many questions regarding relationships. If you are engaged or are going to get married soon, then definitely ask 5 questions to your partner before marriage. Maybe one of these questions will save you from big trouble in the future.
Are you doing this marriage of your own free will?
Many times, boys or girls say ‘yes’ to marriage just under the pressure of parents’ happiness, social status or ‘what people will say’, but their heart is not in this relationship. Even in the Pune case, Sia was not happy with this marriage. Therefore this question is the most basic and important. According to relationship experts, this question is also important so that the other person gets the confidence that they can put their truth in front of you without any fear or pressure. A relationship imposed by force can never bring happiness.
Do you have any unfinished business from a past relationship?
According to relationship experts, everyone can have a past, and there is nothing wrong with that. But evil happens when that past starts affecting your future. Even after the marriage was fixed, Siya was in constant touch with her old lover. This question is not to doubt anyone, but to know whether they have completely come out of their past or are still confused. The relationship should start with a clean slate.
What is your biggest expectation after marriage?
Life changes completely after marriage. Everyone has their own ideas regarding career, personal space, family and financial responsibilities. Relationship experts say that many times fights happen after marriage only because both have different expectations. This question will help you understand whether the vision and lifestyle of both of you match each other or not.
Do you have any doubt about anything in this relationship?
If there is even a small doubt in the mind, it gradually takes the form of a big misunderstanding. If your partner is hesitant about anything you say or is not feeling completely comfortable, then it is important to let him know in time. According to experts, clearing doubts before marriage is a thousand times better than regretting after marriage. This will make your partner feel that you value their feelings.
Can we both talk openly about any problem?
The biggest shortcoming in the Pune murder case was communication. If Siya had openly told her family or Ketan that she wanted to break the engagement, then perhaps an innocent life would have been saved. Relationship experts say that there are ups and downs in life. You have to make sure that no matter how big the problem is, both of you can talk to each other without any fear or ego. If the path of dialogue is open, then solution to every problem is possible.