Relationship Conflict: Was the way the fiance spoke to the girl right? Should house rules be strictly enforced in a relationship? Do you think the fiancé’s behavior in this situation was disrespectful or was it just a misunderstanding?
Many times a small mistake breaks a relationship. This story is also something like this, which has been narrated by a girl herself. The girl told on Reddit that she is angry with her fiance and is unable to calm herself down. He doesn’t understand how to deal with it. Let us tell you the girl’s story in her own words, which she has shared on social media.
The 32 year old girl told that my fiance and I will live together for one year in the year 2023. But due to some circumstances we no longer live together. During that one year he knew that I was in favor of not taking shoes inside the house. I am strict that no one should bring shoes into my house. But when he came to my house last weekend. He started coming inside the house wearing shoes, so I asked him to take off his shoes at the door. I reminded him in a friendly manner as he had come after a long time. He complained but took off his shoes.
Next morning I saw him again walking around the living room wearing shoes. I immediately got angry and asked him to take off his shoes. He said he would not take it off and it was no big deal. I became more angry and said that I don’t care, he has to take off his shoes. She refused and said she shouldn’t take her shoes off because my apartment is “disgusting” anyway. Then again he called my house “disgusting.”
It’s been a few days now but I’m still very angry, feeling extremely humiliated and unable to forget it. He doesn’t understand why I’m so angry. I want him to understand, but I’m still very angry.
My anger was not just about the shoes, the real issue was that reminding someone again and again and still not respecting my words bothers me a lot. Don’t understand what I should do?
What is people’s opinion?
People expressed their opinion on this post of the girl. One wrote that do not marry a boy who does not respect you. While one wrote that if there are any rules in the house, then they should be followed, how can one forget it again and again. This can happen even after marriage and can become a reason for fighting. It has nothing to do with shoes in the house, but everything to do with her playing power games. How can you think that both of you will ever be able to live together happily and peacefully?
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