Husband shares Struggle Story: It has been 13 years of marriage, everything is there at home, but romance has disappeared. The wife did not touch for the first 24 months and now it has been 14 months of intimacy. The husband shared his story on social media and sought feedback.
It is true that after having children, the romance between husband and wife reduces a little. Because many responsibilities fall on both of them, which makes them tired. But if it ends suddenly, without any reason, then it is a matter to think about. A husband shared this pain and said that his wife is not ready to do romance in bed at all. Whereas when alone she satisfies herself with toys. Let us tell you the whole story of the person, which he himself has shared on Reddit and asked for suggestions to fix the relationship.
The young man wrote on Reddit, ‘I have been married for 13 years. During these years we have achieved everything we wanted in our life. Built a house, had two children… all are healthy and we are living a normal life. In the beginning, as always, the intimacy life between us was good, but gradually it started decreasing.
It’s been 14 months since we shared a bed.
Things got a little better again while planning to have children, but after that long gaps started coming again. Currently our record is 24 months without intimacy. After this we got together once or twice, but it stopped again and it has been 14 months again.
The children are growing up, but the wife remains the same
The person further wrote, ‘Of course there is everyday hustle and bustle and we get less time. My wife was not very active before, but after pregnancy, her desire completely reduced. Children were most important to us. Now that they are 4 and 6 years old, there is no change in the situation. I tried many ways to reduce his burden, talk to him, change the atmosphere, but nothing worked. Due to this, I almost lost my job and even joined a support group to understand myself, but that didn’t have much effect.
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wife lies
The man told that my wife bought an intimacy toy and used to use it once a week when I was at friends’ place, but she always refused when I asked. My question is, what else can I do to improve the relationship? Has anyone faced such a situation and if things improve, how much time did it take to get back to normal?
user opinion
There were many comments on the story shared on Reddit. One user advised to take couple therapy. Also said that both of you need to improve your communication and become comfortable in speaking the truth. At the same time, a user asked, how much do you help in household chores and children’s responsibilities? Many women lose interest in intimacy when the husband begins to feel like another “child” to take care of. And one said that if you do not contribute enough to the house and children, then give. This makes a lot of difference.
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