There are many couples, between which physical relations are formed regularly, but they do not get physical pleasure. The reason for this is to lock the woman’s body in intimate moments. In such a situation many women do not become mothers. Psychologist and health counselor Namrata Jain and sexologist Dr. Rajan Bhosle are revealing this mental state of women.
A big difference in the relationship between the body and mind is that the physical distance is visible, but the distance of the mind is not visible. Couples live together under a roof, but get so far away from the mind that even the proximity of the body is not able to bring them closer.
Why does a woman’s body be locked?
Relationship stress reflects in intimate moments
Namrata Jain says, “When the woman is not happy with her married life, her body is not able to connect to the husband while forming a relationship. The stress of the relationship is also visible in their intimate moments. When the tension in the relationship increases, the woman’s body goes on ‘fight, flight or freeze mode’. Actually it is the body’s fighting mechanism.
The body starts opposing
If the woman’s mind is not ready to have a relationship, the body starts fighting for it. When the body stays on flight mode, the woman is not ready for sex and is unable to enjoy it. When the body is on freeze mode, the mind says, do whatever you want to do, I have locked myself from inside. These three situations are associated with the woman’s mind, which affects her physical relationship. Because of this, she could not become a mother. To become a mother, it is necessary to prepare the body and mind of both husband and wife, without this they cannot get the pleasure of children.
Husband-wife response is different
According to sexologist Dr. Rajan Bhosle, men and women think differently about the physical relationship. The desire of a man is more connected to the body than the mind, while emotional engagement is more important for women. Most men are sexually attracted to the woman’s body. For this, they do not need love or emotional engagement. This is the reason that many men go to prostitutes and are interested in seeing the physical composition of the woman displayed in advertisements, films, posters, magazines etc.
This does not happen to the woman, she is unable to make a physical relationship with her until she joins a man with her mind. A woman is attracted to a man when she loves her or joins her emotionally. A handsome man can attract a woman’s attention, but just by looking at the body, he cannot have sex with her, but the man has sex affected by physical attraction.
Namrata Jain believes that stress is the biggest reason for the woman’s body being locked. Stresses like husband, in -laws, career, financial stability also affect her body and physical relationship with her body. Due to this, there is such a distance in the relationship that it becomes difficult to return. In such relationships everything seems normal from outside, but it becomes difficult to bridge the gap of the relationship. When you feel that there is distance in the relationship with the partner, then talk among themselves and bring the relationship back on track. If you are not able to do this yourself, then seek the help of experts.
2- Girls refuse this so that the boys say to them again and again, the girl does to keep her character out.
3- The sooner the girl who is ready for sex … her character is as useless. So girls refuse to have sex. So that no one can raise a finger on her character… However, when she says three or four times, she agrees for sex, and makes a relationship…
4- Some girls also refuse for this … because she only loves the boy. And keeps refusing again and again. However, after having sex 2-3 times, she agrees to make a relationship easily.