Chanakya niti: You must have heard an old saying that everyone’s wife and money seem bigger. This is the bitter truth of our society in today’s time. A living example of this must have seen and heard around you.
But have you ever wondered why this happens. Actually Chanakya answered this question long ago. Let’s understand what are the reasons that attract a husband away from his wife and more towards someone else.
When married at a young age
Due to family pressure or immaturity of the householders, the boys who get married at an early age often go through these things. Because they are not fully prepared at that time. Career, ambitions and desire for a new world gradually start changing them. This imbalance later pushes them to external attraction.
Lack of physical relations
Many times it happens that over time, physical or emotional engagement between husband and wife becomes weak. Gradually, the relationship of both of them becomes hollow. Many times this issue does not come in conversation due to shame or hesitation and this silence becomes a distance.
Changed priorities after children
It is natural to change the priorities of the wife after the birth of the child. Because of this, the husband starts feeling neglected. In such a situation, he starts looking for emotional or physical balance outside. It is temporary, but can be resolved with interaction and intelligence.
Attraction towards foreign or new women
Chanakya has said that a person’s mind is fickle and if he feels new, exciting or attractive somewhere, he runs there. But this attraction is not permanent. It often ends in regrets.
Lack of self-control and wrong company
Chanakya believed that self -control is the biggest victory. When a man does not have restraint, or he is living in a wrong environment, he starts running towards another relationship.
So what is the solution?
- Never let the dialogue die in relationships.
- Small things, loving gestures and understanding make the relationship strong.
- If a distance is coming, it is better to sit and talk among themselves instead of running away. It is often seen that after this the relationship gets better again.
Disclaimer: This article is based on general information and beliefs. Prabhat Khabar does not confirm this.