Premanand Maharaj: Premanand Ji Maharaj says that stop saying his sorrow to people, it is as ordinary as it seems to say this. Most of us whenever there is any trouble, then read the race to listen to someone, call someone, tell someone and tell someone, tell your sorrow in front of someone.
But did he reduce sorrow? No, but the mind became heavy.
Saint Premanand Ji Maharaj says that who remembered the Lord by suffering sorrow, he was a true seeker and the one who poured sorrow in the conversation of worldliness could never achieve that self force. When you say your sorrow to someone, there are three disadvantages.
Disadvantages of telling others to others
First- The person in front can also be happy to hear your sorrow, not everyone is your friendly in this world, there are some who are smiling from within in your suffering.
Second- When you repeatedly say your trouble to someone, then that person starts considering you weak. Even though nothing is said from above, but thinks from within and its mind is very weak, it breaks on everything.
third- Every time saying sorrow, that thing sits deep into your mind. You will feel that it is lightened by saying, but the truth is that by speaking again and again, that pain is permanently settled in your consciousness. Saint Tukaram Ji Maharaj used to say that when the mind is unhappy, it should be dedicated to the name. Speaking will not lighten, will not be extinguished by crying. Only Ram will get peace from the name Ram.