Chanakya niti: Many times humans blame outside people for their life problems. Such as neighbor, office people or society. But many times the enemy is present inside our house.
Which we do not recognize. The great strategist Chanakya also believed this. According to him, real enemies are hidden inside us, indoors, inside the brain. And until we recognize them, peace, success and self-satisfaction stays away. Today we will know in this article who is the real enemy hidden in the house. And how to identify it.
Blind love towards your own people is dangerous
Chanakya says: “Extreme affection is a papay bhavati.” That is, excessive love, often causes sorrow. Many times we become so emotional about a member of our house that even his faults are not visible. Sometimes this blind fascination is towards children, siblings, spouse or parents. Because of this fascination, we ignore mistakes and face loss ourselves. When fascination dominates the conscience, he becomes an enemy.
How to recognize
- Are you saving someone again and again, whether it is making mistakes again and again?
- Are you harming yourself again and again?
The poison of ‘I am right’ also makes the cause of collapse
Chanakya described the ego as the greatest collapse. According to him, when a person gets caught in “I” and “my”, he harms the relationships around him. If a member always considers himself right inside the house, then there is a conflict, anger and distance.
How to recognize
- Do you hesitate to apologize?
- Do others consider the opinion of others to be inferior?
- Should everyone walk in the house according to your mood, think that?
Laziness is the most dangerous enemy
Chanakya says, “Laziness is the great body of the human body.” That is, laziness is the biggest enemy living in a human body. This enemy is sitting quietly in some corner of the house. One who avoids, leaves tomorrow, runs away from himself. He not only stops himself, but also inhibits the development of the whole family. Often such a person runs away from responsibilities and depends on others for anything.
How to recognize
- Does a member always make excuses, avoid responsibility?
- Do you feel your own habits delayed, evasive and reluctant?