As soon as I and my husband were creating a mood, the first night of marriage, there was a loud knock on the door and my aunt’s mother-in-law came, ‘Son, come out.’ I wore clothes and opened the door.
The mother-in-law laughed and said, “Look daughter-in-law, from today is your biggest responsibility-to bring a new member in our family from today. Arun is a little foolish, you have to see.”
I shook my head smiling, but my mind was thinking, “Not mindless, but yes, there is a little glory.” Well, we joked that night’s talk and time moved forward.
A new advice every day
A few days after the wedding, every member of the house would have the same question, “When are you giving good news?” Every time I would laugh and postpone, but gradually this question began to look cumbersome. Arun also takes this thing lightly and would say, “Let people say, we have time.”
First debate
One day after tired, I said to Arun, “We should meet and talk to the doctor. It is difficult to hear this question every day.”
Arun said, “Why now? I want us to become a little more stable first.”
“What difference does you make? You live outside all day, I have to listen to things!” I said angrily.
This was our first debate, and after that day the atmosphere in the house became a bit tense.
Mother -in -law
One day my mother -in -law called me separately and said, “Bahu, if there is any problem, tell us openly. We should see a doctor.”
I gave a direct reply, “Mummy ji, I am ready, but Arun does not want a child yet.”
This created a ruckus in the house. Both mother -in -law and father -in -law tried to convince Arun. Arun clarified his position, “Our economic situation is not as strong that we can take responsibility for the child.”
Father -in -law
Amid arguments between Arun and mother -in -law, father -in -law rescued the middle. He said, “Look, son. Arun’s point is not wrong. Today’s time is different from our time. Earlier our needs were limited. Today everything is expensive and more expenses. But it does not mean that the child’s plan should be deferred indefinitely.”
He explained to Arun, “Son, the right decision is necessary at the right time in life. The child comes with his fate, but the preparation is equally important for him. Take some time, but don’t take too long.”
Start of right direction
The father -in -law’s words forced both Arun and me to think. We understood our priorities and a year later when we realized that we are ready financially and mentally, we decided to increase our family.
Arrival of happiness
Two years later, a cute daughter was born at our house. We both contributed equally in his upbringing. Mother -in -law, father -in -law, and the whole family got support, and our daughter filled new happiness in the house.
conclusion
The understanding and guidance of the elderly in the family takes relationships in the right direction. True relationships are the same, where everyone understands each other and share the happiness of life together.
This story is a message that every decision should be taken with prudence and time. This is the real sweetness of life and relationships.