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Many times we spend a huge and best part of our life thinking about guilt, problems and others. After this we understand that all those things did not matter, for which we did not care about our happiness. Between maintaining relationships and work responsibilities, it is very important to find time for one’s own happiness and this is the art of living. If you adopt the simple methods given here, you can become a happy person and live a happy life.
Young age is a phase when you need to live freely, but at the same time, you have maximum responsibilities and due to this, people spend most of their youth worrying and feeling guilty for not being able to keep others happy. They spend their lives in dissatisfaction and stress. It is important to learn lessons in time and keep yourself happy instead of others. So let us know how?
Learn to stay away from unnecessary arguments
If you want to be happy, then you should not try to win in those debates which do not make any sense. In fact, not every argument is based on any logic. Many times the other person is arguing just out of ego, which wastes your time and also disturbs your mental peace. It is important to learn the art of ignoring small things. Sometimes it is necessary to adopt an attitude of ‘I don’t care’. The simple way to do this is to remember the last time you had an argument with someone, what was the outcome of it. We should choose discussion rather than debate.
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embrace your weirdness
The most frustrating and tiring thing in life is when you have to pretend to be someone you are not in order to get along with others. If someone thinks you are weird then don’t worry about it, rather embrace yourself. Because everything that seems strange to others cannot be lacking. These are also qualities and the people whose lives matter to you will never ask you to change. They will love and respect you just as you are.
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make people think about you
Often we get stressed or guilty due to the confusion that others think wrong about us. For this reason you are not able to live openly or just keep explaining to others. Leave this habit of yours and stop caring. It may seem the most difficult thing that whatever perception others make about you should not matter to you, but if you learn this, then you will move ahead in life and remain happy.
stop apologizing
It is often said that you will not become younger by apologizing, but why does no one think that sometimes due to this we start feeling bad for ourselves. It is important that you set this limit that if it is not your fault then it is right not to apologize. You should stop making yourself feel bad especially for small things. This is not limited to just apologizing, but it is also important that you do not keep guilt in your mind. Everyone has the right to express or deny their views with logic.
not everyone can be happy
If no one is being harmed then putting your happiness first is not selfish, rather it is self-love. Actually we feel that if someone does not like us then there must be something lacking in us. Many people spend a long part of their lives in this thinking. To be happy, you just have to learn to accept that no matter how good you are, some people will not like you. You leave them as they are. Keep some distance and live your life happily as per your wish.
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