A man is troubled by his girlfriend’s excessive attachment and obsessive behavior. In just a month, his controlling nature, location checking, and emotional dependence have become irritating, making the relationship even more uncomfortable.
Reddit Love Story: The beginning of any relationship is sweet, but sometimes the partner’s love gradually starts looking like over-attachment or obsessive behavior. In such a situation, it is absolutely normal to be confused. Is this love? Is there an emotional issue or a red flag? In this story, a boy (19F) tells that his girlfriend (21F) became very clingy and immature in less than a month. She posts crying emojis on small things, checks his location frequently, writes his name on her hand and asks details about every friend or boy.
Love started turning into over attachment
Despite living long-distance, his girlfriend kisses his photo every night, keeps it on the lock-screen and sleeps with the phone on all night, clinging to it. This seemed strange to him and rightly so, because so much attachment in such a short period of time is not considered healthy.
loss of freedom in relationship
Two things are important in a relationship: space and communication. If a partner starts interfering in your freedom, wants to know your every movement or hands over your emotional responsibility to you, then this may not be a sign of love, but a sign of control or insecurity.
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What is people’s opinion?
After listening to the boy’s story on Reddit, people gave their opinion and said that no, you do not love him very much. You’ve been together for a month and have only known him for 3 months. Love doesn’t happen like that. While another user said that it is normal to feel scared when someone shows more interest in the beginning. Another user said that you have been in a relationship for a month and are in long distance. You don’t have to date someone you don’t want to date, and honestly don’t seem interested in. It’s okay to end a relationship that doesn’t work out the way you expected.
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