Reddit Story: Sudden death of parents can completely change the behavior and thinking of any person, which can also affect their relationships. This article explains how grief, trauma, and lack of support can create stress in relationships and…
Relationship: Sudden death of a loved one completely changes a person’s life. When this pain happens to the husband or wife or partner, it has a deep impact on the relationship. Often people try to understand the grief of those who have lost their loved ones, but they forget that the partner who is constantly supporting may also be breaking from within. This is the story of one such relationship, where there is love, but hope is slowly ending.
Grief and trauma change a person
It is natural to feel sad after the death of a parent, but when this sadness dominates the entire life for a long time, it becomes a cause for concern. In this case, the fiancé’s behavior was more than just mourning. Drug use, self-loathing, rapid weight gain, depression and social isolation. All these are signs of deep mental stress and depression. It seems like he is trying to run away from the pain instead of understanding and accepting it.
When help is refused
The partner tried everything possible including therapy, couples counselling, emotional and physical support. But when the other person makes fun of the help given and says, “I know everything,” the relationship is no longer equal. Gradually, it turns into a relationship where one person is just giving and the other is just taking. This situation is not good for anyone in the long run.
lack of interest in important aspects of life
Constant neglect, emotional distance, lack of physical closeness, and lack of interest in important aspects of a partner’s life can all leave a person exhausted. In such a situation, anger, distance, or loss of attraction is not wrong or cruel, but it is a human reaction. It is important to understand someone’s suffering, but it is not right to sacrifice your entire life and identity. Protecting your mental health is not selfish.
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What is people’s opinion?
The girl shared her story on Reddit, on which people gave their opinion saying that it took me 6 months to move out of the house after my father’s death, if both my parents had passed away in such a short period of time, I would have gone crazy. This year is the 9th anniversary of my father’s death and I still cry for him. Another user said that your relationship has suffered a terrible accident, and it is not strong enough to recover from it. I understand that, really. You’re 26, ready to start your life and future and he isn’t. You can decide whether you want to continue or not, there is absolutely no pressure on you. You are not married. You are free to leave anytime.
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