But they never lend a hand in house help or taking care of children. Not only this, if you say no in bed, there is silence in the house. On Reddit, the woman has narrated her ordeal of what she is going through. So let us tell you a mother’s painful story with which many women would agree.
I take care of the kids and do the housework non-stop
The woman wrote on Reddit that 8 months ago I gave birth to twins. The responsibility of those two children, the responsibility of the house all rests on me. My husband Dev, who works full time, does not help me at all in household chores. I get tired physically and emotionally. To overcome this, I go to the gym 3-4 days a week for 40 minutes between 4-5 am. After this, whenever I return home, I keep walking without stopping. Waking up the baby, washing their clothes, cleaning the house, feeding them, cleaning the bottle. Disinfecting and cleaning toys. Cooking and even shopping for oil and spices is my responsibility. By 6/7 pm I have no energy left and feel tired.
Husband returns home and is busy with mobile
On the other hand, when my husband comes home, he says hello to the child and goes to the bathroom and stays inside for 10 minutes. He never asks how I am, even though I have recently been put on medication for PPD (Postpartum Depression). Whenever I try to talk to him he spreads negativity. Nothing brings happiness or joy, he always sees the glass half empty and never sees light or happiness.
He never hugs me or kisses me. He doesn’t do anything good for me. The woman further says that I know that a lot of work has to be done to repay the house loan. But when I start my work in the new year, I will definitely help.