Nowadays, news of illicit relations after marriage and crimes due to these relations have become common. Not only the husbands but also the wives are not missing even a moment from killing their husbands due to illicit relations.
These increasing incidents in the society have shocked every married couple. Even the elders in the family are shocked and upset after seeing these conditions. A question related to this problem has also come before Premanand Maharaj of Vrindavan. Someone asked Maharaj that my spouse has an illicit relationship with someone, what should I do? Maharaj has answered this question in detail.
Premanand Maharaj said that understand the situations due to which the spouse has gone astray. It is important to understand the mental, emotional and physical needs of your spouse. Purify them from the point of view of religion. For example, if any part of the body rots, first medicine is given, then a decision is taken on operation or amputation. Maharaj also said that if the life partner remains immersed in carelessness even after repeated attempts, then the path of religion should be adopted. The arrangements given by the government can be adopted while following religious decorum.
Maharaj said that resorting to violence, abuse or torture under any circumstances is a sin. This is not only illegal, but also degrades your religion and manliness. Answering sin with sin is not the way of a gentleman. But if the spouse truly repents and says that he will not make such a mistake again. If I purify my mind through bhajan and sadhana, then from that day onwards he will be considered as surrendered to God. Then the husband should also not harass her by remembering her old faults. Rather, one should move the spouse forward with love, affection and true support. Love has so much power that it can make even the fallen pure.
effect of chanting name
Maharaj said that purification of anti-religious behavior is possible through name-chanting and satsang. If there is remorse for past mistakes and determination for the future, then a person becomes pure in the eyes of God. These things apply equally to both men and women. If anyone betrays his spouse, he insults religion, love and purity.
In such a situation, first become pure yourself and explain it to your spouse with love. This requires repeated efforts. But if the limit is crossed, then the path of religion should be chosen. If your spouse improves, forget the old things and adopt him/her.
immense power in love
Maharaj said that love has great power. Only the love that is tied to God’s limits can make life successful. This should be understood by every person who has faced setbacks in relationships and who still wants to live a righteous life.