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Importance has to be increased, my brother… You too must have heard this line being said by someone or the other. Actually, this is true to a great extent. Be it personal life or professional… there are many people whose words are given a lot of value while people simply ignore the words of some people. Whereas both the people are on the same position. Actually, your words are given importance or importance according to your behavior in daily routine. If you want people to understand the weight of your words, then follow the tips given here.
If you want to survive in today’s world, it is not enough to just get higher education, work in a big office or earn good money. Apart from this, you should pay attention to many small but useful things in daily life. So let us know about 5 such things.
Learn and stay updated
If people listen to your words carefully and value them, then it is important that you keep yourself flexible to learn new things. Those who do not learn are left behind from others. Similarly, you should also remain updated about the things happening daily. It often happens at the workplace that people start talking about it and if it always happens that you do not know about it, then people think that maybe you do not have any kind of information. In such a situation the value starts decreasing.
get into the habit of saying no
It is very important that you do not say yes to everything. You should learn to say ‘no’ to things you don’t like. Consider this as an example, like when someone asks you to go somewhere, you go along with him, you feel that so that no one feels bad, that is why you even leave work and go. When this thing happens again and again, the other person feels that you are free and because of this he stops valuing you.
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keep body language correct
How you get up, how you walk and your facial expressions and hand actions while talking are an important part of your personality. Especially in the workplace, all these things matter a lot. For example, you should not look away while talking. Don’t talk by hitting your hands too much. Keep your waist straight while sitting. Do not shake hands too much in the meeting. Do not check your phone repeatedly while talking to someone. Laughing and being happy is very important for health, but the habit of laughing at everything all the time should be reduced a little. In such a situation, people feel that you blow away everything and that is why people start being very cool with you, but do not involve you in serious matters.
don’t give unsolicited advice
No one should ever give us advice without asking. Even if you are doing this with very good intentions, you cannot predict how the other person will understand it. Don’t be close with everyone, because some people feel that you are interfering in their lives. Whereas if someone gets something for free or without even asking, then they do not value it.
Don’t share the problem with everyone
It is very important that you do not share your problem with everyone. We should be close only to a few people and share things with those who really understand you. When you start sharing the problems of your life with others, they gradually start giving you less importance, because people enjoy gossiping more than understanding them. In this way you can maintain your dignity.
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