A groom’s 10 demands for marriage have gone viral on social media. He has put 10 conditions like no pre-wedding shoot and the bride wearing a saree. Although the girls have refused to accept the demands, some men have welcomed it.
Grooms Demands Viral: When it comes to marriage, everyone has their own desires and expectations. The girl wants the boy to be like this, be like that, listen to us, he should not have any girlfriend, the boy’s parents should not live together. Monthly salary should be above one lakh, should be taken to party-pub, should have a car-bungalow. There are servants for household work, thus girls make demands according to their ability and desire, whereas boys have different demands. The girl should be thin, fair and beautiful. Must know household work. If you work, take good care of your mother-in-law and father-in-law. In this way everyone has their own demands. But here the strange demand of a groom is not only going viral on social media but is also garnering people’s praise. So let’s see what his demands are…
See the groom’s list of 10 demands
1. There will be no pre-wedding photo shoot.
2. The bride will not wear a lehenga, but a saree.
3. Instead of loud or vulgar music, only light instrumental music will be played in the wedding.
4. At the time of varmala, only the bride and groom will remain on the stage.
5. The bride or groom will not be lifted up during the varmala. Anyone who tries to do so will be asked to leave the function.
6. When the Pandit ji starts the wedding rituals, no one will interrupt him.
7. Photographers/Videographers will not stop or interrupt the wedding rituals for photo-video. They have to take pictures quietly from a distance, because this is a sacred marriage taking place in front of the sacred fire, not a film shoot.
8. The bride and groom will not pose artificially for the camera if asked by the photographer.
9. The wedding will take place during the day and the farewell should take place by evening. So that the guests do not face any problems (like sleeplessness, acidity or indigestion) caused by late night dinner and they can return home comfortably on time.
10. Anyone who asks the newly married couple to hug or kiss in front of everyone will be immediately sent away.
The post went viral on social media
There has been a lot of debate on social media regarding these 10 demands of the groom. Many people have given their opinion on this. One user commented, ‘Demands are fine, but who is the one to decide what the bride will wear? This day is equally special for him also. Another wrote angrily, ‘Why are you deciding what she will wear on the wedding day?’ Misogynist men will never improve.’ Another user commented, ‘From his list it seems he is a perfect person. Did he ask his future wife before listing his 10 wishes? Or does he think that because he is the groom and his demands are not about money, they will be met? But why does she have the right to decide what she will wear to the wedding? This is his marriage too.
At the same time, some people have also agreed with some of his points. One commented, ‘The groom has made a good plan to save money.’ Another wrote, ‘Looks like the groom has forgotten that the bride also has her own wishes in the marriage.’ One user commented, ‘Where there are demands, there is no respect, there is only control.’ One said, ‘How can this be called a demand? No one can take the decision of marriage alone, it can be announced only after both of them sit together and discuss. While some people praised it, most of the girls objected to it. What is your opinion about the groom’s demands, tell us by commenting…