It is often seen that in the eyes of society, a person is considered a good person and a good partner. The difference between a good person and a good partner is ignored in the society.
In such a situation, if the partner shows dissatisfaction in the relationship or the relationship breaks, then everyone has only one question, if I could not live with such a good person, then there must be something lacking in it. But is it really so? Does being a good person always mean having a good partner? Let us know in this article.
Minor difference between a good person and a good partner
A good person is honest. Along with your own respect, you also have to take care of your partner’s respect. He fulfills all the responsibilities of his home, family, children very well. Respects his partner’s work and also helps him in his work. These are all qualities of a partner who is a very good person. But still not a good partner.
Being a good partner involves understanding your partner’s emotional needs along with all the qualities of a good person. Providing mental security along with financial security to your partner. Expressing your love in behavior and words also includes. If all these qualities are present in a good person then he is a good person as well as a good partner.
Bad relationship despite being a good person
As we understood above the difference between a good person and a good partner. The reason for the deterioration of the relationship is also hidden in these differences. Let us know.
If a person, who is a very good person, but is not emotionally aware, then he is not able to express his feelings to his partner in the relationship and the partner considers this silence as distance.
If a good person never argues with his partner. Doesn’t question everything. If instead of showing respect for the partner’s words, he gives a direct answer, then superficially there is no conflict in the relationship. But in reality there is less communication in relationships. The presence of loving words disappears in the relationship and gradually the conversation in the relationship becomes merely formal.
If a good person does not show love to his partner, does not praise him or ignores his partner’s feelings, then as a result his partner understands that he does not care about him. There is no love and gradually emotional distance increases in the relationship.
A good person can become a good partner
If a person is a very good person and is willing to make himself emotionally aware then he can be a good companion.
The first step is to tell your partner about your emotional shortcomings. Amen to that. Ask your partner to help me. I want to bring changes in myself, so that our relationship can become better than before.
If your partner is telling you something, then listen to it and talk instead of ignoring it. Solve problems when they occur. If there is a complaint, understand the reason. Understand your partner’s mental needs along with his/her physical needs. These are small changes which can be brought within oneself to become a good person and a good partner.