Dating Warning Sings: Dating coach Kimberly Ray said that if a person talks to you irregularly, only talks about himself and never plans in advance, then understand that you are just a ‘placeholder connection’ for him, and not a real relationship.
Relationship Red Flags: It is not easy to understand relationships in today’s era. Many times we think that the other person likes us, but in reality we just become a ‘time pass’ or placeholder connection for him. Dating coach Kimberly Ray recently revealed three such signs that show that someone is just using you to fill their void, not to build a real relationship.
When their contact pattern is not fixed
According to Kimberly, if the other person messages only occasionally, and there is no pattern to his conversation, then be careful. If he contacts you whenever he feels like it and then stops talking on his own, it is a clear sign that the relationship is going on his terms. This means that you are not a priority for him, but just a backup option.
Conversation should be superficial and self-focused
If there is no depth in your words, and he always revolves around his own words, then this is also a sign. Such a person does not really try to know you. He neither asks questions about you nor is interested in your emotions. Whatever he knows about you is what you yourself have told him, not what he has tried to find out.
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Lack of planning-always meet today behavior
According to Kimberly, the person who wants to have a relationship with you plans in advance. But if someone always sends “Meet today” or “Come now” type messages, then understand that he just acts according to his mood. Such relationships often seem hot and cold, i.e. sometimes very close, sometimes very far.
Don’t be anyone’s placeholder – dating coach’s advice
Kimberly said in her video that please do not be anyone’s placeholder. End such relationships immediately. Many Instagram users agreed with the dating coach’s advice. One wrote that you are absolutely right every time.
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