A family dispute in UP sparked a new debate on the dignity of relationships. Know the questions raised regarding the uncle-niece relationship, the family’s reaction and what experts say on such emotional matters.
Mausa Bhanji Controversy: Although love can happen with anyone at any time, but the dignity of the relationship also has to be kept in mind. But many times such cases come to light, which show the picture of Kalyug. A family meeting suddenly turned into a huge uproar in Fatehpur district of UP. A girl came to stay at her aunt’s house in Shadipur area and fell in love with her uncle.
Girl fell madly in love with her uncle
When the news reached the girl’s family, there was an uproar. When the family came to pick up the girl, she refused to go. High voltage drama broke out on the road. The girl kept saying again and again that she wanted to stay here. She wants to live a life with her uncle like a wife. She also argued that “everyone has two wives” and stuck to her decision despite opposition from her family. This statement surprised the people present there.
The girl had come to their home about 18 months ago for help with her post-natal medical condition. With time, tension regarding this issue started increasing in the house. If aunty is to be believed, there has been an uproar in the house over this issue before. However, the matter did not reach the police. The family members are trying to calm the girl down.
When does emotional connection become attraction?
Although such cases are rarely heard in the society, but when they come to light, they leave many questions, is this love? emotional support? Or mental confusion? Many times, emotional attachment in family becomes deeper due to living together for a long time, taking care of them or getting support in difficult times. Psychologists believe that in such a situation a person starts looking at the relationship from a different perspective. Especially when the age is young or emotional maturity is not complete, the boundaries of right and wrong can become blurred.
Why is it important to maintain dignity in family relationships?
There is a clear definition and limits of relationships in Indian society. Relationships like aunt, uncle, uncle are considered symbols of trust and security. When emotional confusion occurs within these boundaries, it can lead to increased tension and social awkwardness throughout the family.
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What to do when there is such a dispute in the family?
Try to explain to the girl with a calm mind. If counseling is needed, do that also. Give emotional support to the child. Many times a person is feeling lonely and insecure, that is why he takes such steps. Talk lovingly and explain what is right and what is wrong.
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