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Valentine’s Day is celebrated on 14 February in many countries of the world. This is the day to express love. Couples give gifts to each other to make each other feel special or go out somewhere. At the same time, Valentine is also very special for those people who want to share their heart with their crush. Valentine’s Day is a great opportunity to propose someone. But it is not necessary that the answer to your proposal is ‘yes’. Many times it also happens that the girl from whom one has expectations says no or things do not work out as per one’s heart’s desire. In such a situation, it is natural to feel nervous, empty or question yourself.
Receiving rejection on Valentine’s Day can certainly be painful, but it also provides an opportunity to learn, become stronger, and understand yourself better. If you have also received a rejection on Valentine’s Day, then there is no need to panic. In this article, we are going to give you some such tips, by following which you can convert your sorrow into happiness. Or we can say that they can help you in moving on. Let us know about them…!
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1. Accept emotions, don’t suppress them
It is absolutely natural to feel sad after not hearing. It is not right to suppress emotions in order to appear strong. If you feel some sadness, disappointment or emptiness, accept it. To lighten your heart, write, talk to a trusted friend, or spend some time alone. Only when the feelings come out, the mind becomes calm and you also get a fresh start.
2. Stop blaming yourself
Someone’s rejection is not your failure. Every person has his own likes and dislikes. Asking myself again and again, what am I missing? Breaks your confidence. So remember, you are enough just the way you are. Therefore, do not consider someone’s refusal as your shortcoming and maintain faith in yourself.
3. Focus on yourself and practice self-care
It is very important to give priority to yourself at this time. The heart definitely hurts when you get rejection, but it does not end life. Whatever is made for you will remain with you only. In such a situation, punishing yourself is not right at all. You should focus on yourself at this time. For this, it is better to get complete sleep rather than spoiling your sleep. Eat your favorite food, go for a workout or walk, listen to music or take up a hobby. When you take care of yourself, your mind automatically becomes strong and negative thoughts also stay away.
4. Strengthen yourself instead of getting distracted
Sitting idle and thinking about the same thing only increases the sorrow. At this time, focus your energy on yourself. Keep yourself busy in work, studies, fitness, any hobby or new skill. When you focus on improving yourself, your mind automatically becomes lighter and the sadness gradually turns into self-confidence.
5. Move ahead without waiting for the person in front.
In many cases, it happens that even after rejection, people sit waiting for the same person and start moving away from everyone. This method is absolutely wrong. When you sit waiting for the person in front of you, your expectations increase and your heart keeps getting broken. Therefore, try to start meeting people instead of staying away from them. Be it your friends, family members or any of your well-wishers.
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