ginAt some point or the other, after seeing someone, you must have thought that they are such good people, then why bad things always happen to them? Maybe you yourself have felt that you have always received evil in return of good.
This question arises in the mind of all of us somewhere. More than a question, this is a matter that creates deep sorrow and confusion. It is a matter of making people lose faith in goodness. Have you ever wondered why this happens? Now it is difficult to find any concrete and straightforward reason but yes, there can definitely be some interesting reasons behind this. Let us know about these.
good people have high expectations
People who are good themselves expect the same goodness from others. The more love, respect, honor and honesty they treat people with, they feel that the other person will do the same. This is where they often get defeated. When the other person behaves exactly the opposite, it hurts their heart. Many times they even get cheated due to their simple behavior. It is here that they start feeling that even after giving good things, they don’t know why they get only bad things.
good people get carried away by emotions
Good people are very emotional. When they come to help someone, they often forget their limitations and help the other person wholeheartedly. Their only mistake is that they seek the same love and support from others as they give to them. But the world is not made only by good people. When they come across selfish and deceitful people, they break them from within.
Can’t say ‘no’
Some people remain crushed because they do not know how to say ‘no’. These people are so pure at heart that they feel that by doing so they might hurt the other person. Just because of this, people use them easily and they are not able to do anything special. In the process of keeping people happy, they get so crushed that they are left with nothing but regrets. Therefore, it is not at all right to be so sensitive and soft in practical life. It is very important to set a boundary around yourself.
Do not compromise with principles
Good people have some principles and they like to live their life according to them. No matter how many problems they face, these people never compromise with their principles. For them, their morals are supreme. However, life is never fair. In such a situation, even when any difficulty arises, these people do not take any short cut. This goodness of theirs sometimes outweighs them and they have to struggle more than other people.
overthinkers are good people
Nice people are often very sensitive. For this reason, they start thinking for hours even on small things. They take every small thing to heart, due to which they get hurt very easily. Those things which may not matter so much to anyone else or they may not even think about them that much, become very big for these people. Due to this emotional overload, sometimes even small problems become very big for them.