Dating in 2025 is a lot. Just when you think you’ve seen it all, the internet invents a new relationship trend that makes you want to log off forever. From unnecessary labels to straight-up bizarre behaviors, here are 10 dating trends that will have you rolling your eyes really hard.
1. Ghostlighting
It’s like ghosting—but worse. Instead of disappearing quietly, the person comes back and gaslights you into thinking they never ghosted you in the first place. Like, huh?!
2. Delulu dating
People are now embracing their delusions and manifesting relationships with people who barely know they exist. It’s confidence… or just cringe?
3. The beige flag obsession
First, we had red flags (bad) and green flags (good). Now, beige flags are supposedly neutral things that make someone a little boring. Do we really need to analyze everything?
4. Soft launching a relationship
Posting a mysterious hand on Instagram, a shadow in the background, or a blurry date night pic—just say you’re dating and move on!
5. Chronically online flirting
People are now flirting using memes, TikTok trends, and text-only conversations. Touch some grass and ask them out already!
6. Pre-breakup era
Some people now announce their breakup before actually breaking up. Instead of talking it out, they act like they’re on a press tour for their own heartbreak.
7. Dry texting tests
Sending dry, one-word texts on purpose to see if the other person “puts in effort” to keep the convo going. Just communicate like a normal human!
8. ‘Hard-launching’ a breakup
Full PowerPoint presentations, dramatic captions, and emotional monologues about “choosing yourself.” It’s giving main character syndrome.
9. Dating app hoarding
Having 20 matches but refusing to meet anyone in real life. What’s the point?
10. Overanalyzing spotify playlists
Apparently, the songs someone listens to reveal their entire personality. It’s just music, not a love language!