Every person wants his home to always be full of love, peace and happiness. But many times we ourselves commit such mistakes which start breaking our own house. These mistakes are hidden in our thinking, habits and behavior, whose impact we realize only when things start getting out of hand.
Saint Premanand Maharaj told in a recent sermon that there are five such things, which if they come into a house, then that house slowly starts disintegrating. These things may seem like a part of everyday life, but their impact is very deep and far-reaching. Let us know those five things which it is important for everyone to avoid.
These 5 things turn a happy home into hell
1. Ego
When any member of the family becomes arrogant and feels that he is the best, then distance starts increasing in relationships. Due to lack of respect, conflict and ego, the atmosphere at home starts deteriorating. Ego is the biggest enemy of family peace.
2. To lie
Honesty is most important in relationships. If family members start lying to each other, the foundation of trust becomes weak. A lie gives rise to suspicion and misunderstanding, which can slowly break the entire family. Truth is necessary if we want to save our home.
3. Impure food and wrong earnings
If impure food or ill-gotten money comes into the house, it affects not only the body but the energy of the entire family. Such money and food spread negativity and the happiness and peace of the house gradually ends.
4. Criticizing others
If there is always evil and criticism of others in a house, then mental disturbance and discord takes over there. Criticism makes the home environment poisonous and poisons relationships. Only positive things create a pleasant environment.
5. Distance from God
When people in the house turn away from devotion, worship or meditation, there is a lack of spiritual energy in the house. Due to this, the mind remains disturbed and disputes over small matters increase. Connection with God maintains peace, love and harmony in the home.
What to do to maintain peace in family life?
It is not enough to just give up bad habits, some good habits also have to be adopted. According to Premanand Maharaj, if prayer is done every morning by lighting a lamp in the house, if there is mutual respect and communication, then negativity cannot survive.
Respecting the words of elders, maintaining love between elders and elders and using money for good purposes, all these together bring happiness and prosperity in the house. When there is a positive atmosphere at home, children also learn good values and the entire family progresses.