Relationship Tips: Relationship coach Ajay K Pandey believes that couples should remain separate from their parents for the first 5 years of marriage. This strengthens love, privacy and mutual understanding. Living together gives both freedom and depth to the relationship.
Relationship Coach Tips: Marriage connects two lives together. Every couple wants this relationship to be built on a foundation full of love, trust and understanding. But sometimes a mistake brings distance in a relationship. One of which is to live with parents immediately after marriage. Relationship coach and author Ajay K Pandey said that one should not make the mistake of living with parents immediately after marriage. They should spend time together for the first 5 years of marriage.
Ajay K Pandey recently shared a post on the same topic on Instagram, titled, ‘Don’t live with your parents for first 5 years of marriage. But why?’ He told that couples should stay away from their parents in the initial years of marriage, so that both can strengthen the foundation of their relationship. Ajay has given 7 big reasons behind this-
She is your wife, not your parents
According to Ajay, your wife married you and not your parents. In such a situation, it is important to give priority to his dreams and needs. If you are always busy pleasing others, you will ignore your wife’s feelings.
let confidence grow
Constant interrupting or controlling destroys one’s self-confidence. Ajay says, ‘Correction kills confidence’ i.e. being repeatedly interrupted to correct him can kill his confidence. Let your wife live her own way – leave it all up to her to decide what to wear, what to cook or when to speak.
Don’t let romance get lost in rituals
After marriage, couples often forget romance amid responsibilities. Ajay says that morning prayers and household duties should not take the place of your night talks and love.
freedom does not mean permission
Give your wife freedom to take her own decisions. Where are you going again and again? Or why was it late? Such questions bring suffocation in the relationship. Give him trust, not control.
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Love grows with privacy
A little personal time and space between husband and wife gives depth to the relationship. When doors close, hearts open, that’s the real connection.
space is necessary
Ajay says that Too much closeness suffocates. That means being together all the time does not increase love, but brings fatigue. A little distance brings new freshness to the relationship.
Connection increases with freedom
When couples live alone, they understand each other better and appreciate the small things. Like eating pizza together or talking late at night, such moments deepen relationships.
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