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Many people are over-possessive about their partner, that is, they show excessive authority over their husband or wife or try to control them, such as it is necessary to tell them before talking to someone or leaving. It can also be called over care. But after a time this can cause cracks in the relationship. Because every person has his own personal life, in such a situation, if the other partner interrupts him in everything that he should not do this, do not talk to her or do not wear such clothes, then the other person may get upset with this habit of his.
Paying attention to your partner’s every activity or over-caring behavior can often make them appear possessive instead of loving and caring. In such a situation, lack of trust in each other, stress and fights may increase in the relationship. Therefore, you should reduce this habit of yours. In which these tips can help you.
Ask yourself these questions
Try to understand yourself that over-possessive behavior is often the reason for fear or lack of trust in your partner. You have to ask yourself, do I trust my partner? Am I living in fear because of some past experience? By finding answers to these questions, you can reach the root of your behavior. When you know the reason, you will be able to work on it.
building and maintaining trust
Trust is the foundation of every relationship. In such a situation, give your partner a chance to talk openly. Learn to believe what your past experiences say without thinking and without doubt. Start believing in small promises. It takes some time to build trust. If you have any doubt about anything, then talk to your partner about it directly.
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giving space to partner
Every person has his own personal life. This does not mean that they love you less. Learn to give space to your partner. Avoid calling or messaging all the time. Let them spend time with their friends or family. Understand that love is not about tying a person, but it also has freedom. When you give space, trust will also start building in the relationship.
to speak openly
If you have doubts about your partner’s behavior or have any problem with anything, then talk to him directly about it. But without accusing them. Instead of you ignoring me every time, you can ask that these days you have become very busy that you are not able to find time for us, is everything okay or is there any problem.