Every person wants his house to be full of love, peace and happiness. But many times we ourselves make some such mistakes, which start breaking our own house. These mistakes are hidden in our thinking, habits and behavior, whose effect we know when things start coming out of the hand.
Sant Premanand Maharaj (Premanand Maharaj) said in a recent discourse that there are five such things, which if they come to a house, then the house slowly starts to disintegrate. These things may be part of everyday life, but their effect is very deep and far -reaching. Let’s know the five things that are necessary for everyone to avoid.
These 5 things make a happy house hell
1. ego
When a member of the house gets ego and he feels that he is the best, then the distance in the relationship starts increasing. Lack of respect, conflict and ego starts deteriorating the atmosphere of the house. Ego is the biggest enemy of family peace.
2. Lying
Honesty is the most important in relationships. If the members of the house start lying among themselves, then the foundation of trust becomes weak. A lie causes suspicion and misunderstanding, which can gradually break the whole family. If you want to save the house, then the truth is important.
3. impure food and wrong earnings
If the money earned from impure food or bad earnings in the house comes, then it affects the energy of the whole family, not only on the body. Such money and food spread negativity and the happiness and peace of the house gradually ends.
4. condemning others
If there is evil and condemnation of others all the time in a house, then there is mental disturbance and discord there. Condemnation makes the atmosphere of the house poisonous and poison dissolves in relationships. Positive things create a pleasant atmosphere.
5. Distance from God
When the people of the house get away from devotion, worship or meditation, there is a lack of spiritual energy in the house. This keeps the mind turbulent and the discord increases in small things. Connection with God maintains peace, love and harmony in the house.
What to do to maintain peace in household life?
It is not enough to leave only bad habits, some good habits also have to be adopted. According to Premanand Maharaj, if every morning is prayed by lighting a lamp in the house, respect and dialogue among themselves, then the negativity cannot last.
Honoring the words of the elderly, maintaining love between the younger and younger and putting money in the right things, they all bring happiness and prosperity in the house. When there is a positive atmosphere in the house, children also learn good values and the whole family progresses.