CHanakya Niti: You must have heard an old saying at some point or the other that everyone else’s wife and money are important to them. This is the bitter truth of our society today. You must have seen and heard a living example of this around you.
But have you ever wondered why this happens? Actually Chanakya had answered this question long ago. Let us understand what are the reasons that attract a husband away from his wife and towards someone else.
When you get married at a young age
Boys who marry at a young age due to family pressure or immaturity often go through these things. Because they are not completely mentally prepared at that time. Career, ambitions and desire for a new world gradually start changing them. This imbalance later pushes them towards external attractions.
lack of physical relations
Many times it happens that with time the physical or emotional bond between husband and wife becomes weak. Gradually their relationship becomes hollow. Many times this issue does not come up in conversation due to shyness or hesitation and this silence becomes distance.
Priorities changed after children
It is natural for a wife’s priorities to change after the birth of a child. Because of this the husband starts feeling neglected. In such a situation, he starts looking for emotional or physical balance outside. This is temporary, but can be resolved through dialogue and understanding.
Attraction towards foreign or new women
Chanakya has said that a person’s mind is fickle and if he finds something new, exciting or attractive somewhere else, he runs there. But this attraction is not permanent. Often it ends in regret.
Lack of self-control and bad company
Chanakya believed that self-control is the biggest victory. When a man does not have self-control, or is living in a wrong environment, he starts running towards other relationships.
So what is the solution?
- Never let communication die in relationships.
- Small talks, loving gestures and understanding make relationships stronger.
- If there is any distance coming, then it is better to sit together and talk to each other instead of running away from it. Many times it is seen that after this the relationship becomes better again.
Disclaimer: This article is based on general information and assumptions. Prabhat Khabar does not confirm this.